Marriage is the most important thing in
the life. In China, a traditional wedding is simple and lively, ceremonious, and
joyful. There are some unique features in this ceremony, but in modern society,
especially in the city, it is hardly seen any more.
Bridal sedan is the core of the traditional wedding. In wedding, Bride should sit
in sedan, then be lifted from her mother's home to her husband's home. Generally,
there are two kinds of sedan, that is, four-lifter and eight-lifter,also divided
into "dragon sedan" and "phoenix sedan". There are so many suites who hold gongs,
umbrellas, fans and so on, besides lifters. In group, there are more than ten persons
at least, and the occasion is very magnificent. In a traditional wedding, accompanied
with a bridesmaid, Bride wearing a red veil and led along by bridesgroom who holds
a red silk in his hands, enters bridal sedan. On the way to husband's home. lifters
jolt the sedan as it is neccessary in a joyful wedding. Lifters swing sedan from
left to right, causing bride to sit unsteadily inside. Sometimes gridegroom has
to substitute for his bride or beg to everyone else, while, all laugh to adding
to the jubilance.
Wedding ceremony is the most important part of a traditional Chinese wedding. The
newlyweds go to table for heaven and earth where there is a dou - a kind
of basket, full of grain. The dou is written with "gold and jade fulfill
the dou" on rim and is sealed with red paper. There are many coins placed
in four corners of dou to provide the "luck" meaning to guests. There is
a cypress branch, called "ready source of money", decorated with copper coins. Besides,
one steelyard, a mirror, a loom, a lamp or a candle are also placed near dou.
Afterwards, groom stands on left side, bride right by his side, while director prompts,
"First bow to the heaven and earth; second bow to parents; third bow to each other".
According to the folk saying, they will not be formal couple until bowing to the
heaven and earth. As a result, people pay a great attention to this ceremony, An
interesting custom is that if groom cannot come to this ceremony, he should ask
his sister to hold a cock instead.
After taking bridal sedan, bowing to the heaven, it's time for the newlyweds to
go to bridal chamber. According to custom, their relatives and friends get together
in the bridal chamber to banter newlyweds. At this time, newlyweds will never get
angry even if the teasing games are a bit outrageous, but will try to skillfully
dissolve since the relatives and friends intend to delight them.
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